A 90-Minute Live Workshop with Debrah Goetz
Your loved one is alive.
And you are grieving them anyway.
Parental alienation. Family estrangement. A grief with no funeral, no casseroles, and no closure — and almost no one who understands it. In one Sunday morning, you will finally understand what happened to your family, why it hurts the way it does, and how to begin taking your life back.
A compassionate live workshop about parental alienation, family estrangement, and the grief few people understand. Find clarity, validation, and a path forward.
One live session · One date only · Sunday, July 26 at 11 am ET
If You Are Here, You Already Know
There is a kind of loss that few people truly understand.
A parent, child, grandchild, or sibling — still alive, yet absent from your life. If these sound like your own thoughts, keep reading. This page was written for you.
You are carrying grief that has no funeral, no ritual, and often very little understanding from the people around you. Friends don't know what to say. Family changes the subject. Even professionals can miss it entirely.
Here is what nobody has told you: this loss has a name. What has a name can be understood. And what can be understood can finally begin to heal.
More than one in four adults reports being estranged from a close family member. It is one of the most common — and least talked about — forms of grief in the world.
Cornell University estrangement researchThe Missing Piece
It's called ambiguous loss — and it is one of the most misunderstood forms of grief a human being can carry.
Researchers call it disenfranchised grief: mourning the world does not recognize, validate, or make room for. When the person you've lost is still alive, there is no ritual for your pain. So you carry it alone. In silence. Sometimes for years.
On Sunday, July 26, Debrah Goetz will put language, structure, and lived experience around what you have been carrying — so you can stop asking "what is wrong with me?" and finally understand what actually happened.
What You'll Learn
Inside Your 90 Minutes
Not a lecture. A guided journey through the loss — from naming it, to understanding why it hurts, to breaking the patterns that keep people stuck for years.
First · Clarity
Understanding the Loss
You cannot heal what you cannot name. Clarity is the first relief — and for most people, it arrives in the first twenty minutes.
- What parental alienation is—and what it is not
- The difference between alienation and legitimate estrangement
- Common tactics and behaviors often seen in alienation dynamics
- The impact on targeted parents and other family members
- Why this form of grief can feel so overwhelming and consuming
- Debrah's own story of parental alienation & estrangement — told openly, so you know you are not alone
Then · Validation
Why It Hurts So Deeply
Your pain is not an overreaction. It has a structure — and the moment you see the structure, it loosens its grip.
- The nature of ambiguous loss
- Disenfranchised grief and invisible suffering
- Why friends, family, and even professionals often misunderstand this experience
- The emotional, physical, and health consequences that can arise from prolonged estrangement
- What healing actually looks like — realistically, without platitudes
Finally · Direction
The Mistakes That Keep People Stuck
These four patterns quietly steal years from good people. You will learn to recognize every one of them — in time to stop them.
- Becoming consumed by the search for answers
- Losing oneself in the role of the rejected parent or family member
- Waiting for reconciliation before allowing life to continue
- Isolating from support and community
A Life Beyond The Waiting
Healing does not mean you stopped loving them.
It means the silence no longer gets to decide whether you live fully today. This workshop gives you a compassionate place to begin separating love from suffering.
What Changes
By 12:30 pm on Sunday, July 26, you will…
Not "someday." Not "eventually." By the time you close Zoom that morning:
- Have a name and a framework for what happened to your family — instead of a fog of self-blame and unanswered questions.
- Understand why the pain is this heavy — and why it was never a sign that something is wrong with you.
- Know the four mistakes that keep people trapped for years, and how to recognize them in your own life.
- Have heard, from someone who lived it, what rebuilding a meaningful life actually looks like on the other side.
- Know you are not alone — perhaps for the first time since this began.
Honest Expectations
What This Workshop Is — and What It Isn't
You have been sold enough false hope. This page will not add to it.
This is for you if…
- You are experiencing parental alienation or family estrangement
- You feel isolated and misunderstood in your grief
- You want a deeper understanding of what has happened
- You are looking for hope without false promises
- You are ready to begin reclaiming your life, your peace, and your future
This is not…
- A promise of reconciliation — no honest person can make that promise
- Legal advice or a custody strategy session
- A replacement for therapy or medical care
- A place where you'll be asked to relive your trauma publicly
"While I cannot promise reconciliation, I can offer something equally important: understanding, validation, education, and a path forward."
Meet Your Guide
Debrah Goetz
Medical Intuitive · Educator · Mentor · Healer
Debrah Goetz has spent decades helping individuals navigate profound life challenges and personal transformation — guiding thousands of clients worldwide through grief, illness, and rebuilding.
But this workshop is different. Debrah lost her own children to parental alienation and estrangement. She knows the silent birthdays, the unanswered messages, and the slow work of building a meaningful life on the other side of devastating loss — because she has done it.
Her approach combines lived experience, compassionate guidance, emotional resilience, and practical strategies for moving forward. Not theory. Not platitudes. The real map, drawn by someone who has walked the territory.
Real Voices · Real Experiences
What people say about working with Debrah
Press play to hear directly from people who have experienced Debrah’s compassionate guidance and deeply personal approach.
Individual experiences vary. These stories are shared to reflect personal experiences with Debrah’s work.
The Choice In Front Of You
There are two versions of Sunday, July 26.
Sunday, Version One
You wake up carrying the same weight, the same silence, the same questions on repeat. Another week begins the way the last one ended — alone with something no one around you understands.
Sunday, Version Two
At 11 am, you sit down with a guide who has lived this loss — and for the first time, someone puts words around exactly what you've been carrying. By lunch, the fog has a map.
Most people spend years — and thousands of dollars — circling what this workshop delivers in 90 minutes. The difference between the two Sundays is $47. Less than a single therapy session.
Choose Version Two — $47Reserve Your Seat
Invisible Loss
Understanding Parental Alienation & Family Estrangement
- Format90-Minute Live Educational Workshop
- LocationZoom — join from anywhere
- Date & TimeSunday, July 26, 2026 | 11 am ET
- Your GuideDebrah Goetz, Medical Intuitive
One-Time Investment
This is a single live session. One date. If this page found you, it found you in time.
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Questions
Before You Ask
Is this therapy or counseling?
Will I have to share my story or turn my camera on?
What if I can't attend live?
I'm estranged from a sibling / grandchild / parent β not a child. Is this still for me?
Will this help me reconcile with my family member?
You have carried this alone long enough.
You do not have to carry it alone on July 26.
One Sunday morning. Ninety minutes. A guide who has lived it — and a room full of people who finally understand.
Reserve My Seat — $47 Sunday, July 26, 2026 | 11 am ET | Live on Zoom